What's Worth Doing?

Here is my favorite "zen" question:

What is it that you are not doing
while you are busy doing
what it is you are doing?

I like this saying for at least two reasons. The first is that I made it up myself! The second is that when I reflect upon it from time to time, it helps me tweak my priorities.... and I'm needing to tweak right now.

As you have noticed, I have been posting less frequently. What I have not been doing (writing a post each week) is because of what I am doing (teaching three social work classes at USM).

Both pursuits are extremely important to me; and yet, at times I find myself torn and wishing I could spend lots more time doing both. (I've also not been quilting, but let's not even go there!) Since my students are my newest readers as well as my current responsibility, I write today's post for them. It's about priorities.

On the first day of class, their faces were as bright and shiny as the blank pages of their new notebooks. But now, with pages of scribbled notes they may not be able to decipher at exam time, they appear to be asking:

"What am I doing here?"
"What's this all for?"
And above all, "What am I missing out on while I'm doing this?"

In other words, the realization of the enormous commitment they have made to becoming professional social workers has hit them hard.

All of us, students or not, face the challenge of what's worth doing. The greatest struggles arise when two or more vital pursuits compete for our limited time and energy.

The usual advice - to "examine and adjust your priorities" - never works for me. It suggests that if you were to examine your heart, you'd see that one priority has more weight than another. But my heart holds dear many people and many pursuits. It would be a Solomon's choice to pick one.

When two or more pursuits are equally compelling in your life (and I believe that this is often the case), you need to understand how the two are related: how they complement and inform one another. When you do that, you are less likely to feel that you are stealing from one to do the other. When I write, my teaching improves. When I teach, my writing improves. When I'm doing one, I don't have to feel guilty about not doing the other because, in a way, I'm doing both.

Now that may sound like compromising the quality of both endeavors. But my thinking is guided by something William James once said:

"The greatest use of a life is to spend it on something that will outlast it."

Applying that principle, teaching and writing are both worth doing. And I don't believe that James meant spending your life doing some one thing that would make you famous or for which statues would be built in your honor. You see, he also said:

"I am done with great things and big plans, great institutions, and big successes. I am for those tiny, invisible loving human forces that work from individual to individual, creeping through the crannies of the world like so many rootlets..."

So, I think I'll tend to my rootlets. Maybe one of them will lead me back to quilting.

Copyright 2008 starfishdoc

Landscapes

It was the perfect weekend for a foliage trip. Blue skies and sunshine. Cool, comfortable temperatures. We went off to spend an overnight with friends in Southwest Harbor, and spent Saturday sightseeing in Acadia National Park. The park roads were busy with hikers, bikers, and campers - everyone out enjoying the beautiful scenery offered by Cadillac Mountain and the surrounding area.

The views throughout Acadia are breathtaking, as you can see. Ocean, mountains, lakes, trails - whatever your idea of natural beauty, you're likely to find it here. That's not to say that Acadia is the only place to find such majesty. There are wonders of nature all over our country and all around the world.

There are so many different ways people relate to such beauty. As I was standing at the summit of Cadillac Mountain, I overheard a man say to his friends, "Okay, we've seen it. Now how about some tea and popovers?" (He was referring to Jordan Pond House, a favorite park restaurant, where popovers are the house specialty.) I've got nothing against popovers, mind you. In fact, I had myself a couple that day, too. My issue with him is it seemed that all he felt he needed to do was to check the box that said "caught the view from Cadillac" and he was done. Now, that's aesthetic appreciation at its lowest rung!


I suspect that most of the folks there were more in "communing with nature" mode: trying to take in and appreciate the awesomeness of nature in all her glory and connect to it in a personal way.


For me, the beauty around me reminded me of something Eckhart Tolle said. "Joy does not come from what you do, it flows into what you do and thus into this world from deep within you." In other words, it is the landscape within not the landscape without that counts.

When you really understand that, you don't need to go anywhere. You carry the beauty of the world in which we live deep within your own soul. Ultimately, the exploration of our inner landscape is what leads us to understand one another, because it is there that we discover how much we are the same entity. Places like Acadia simply serve to remind us of that.

Copyright starfishdoc 2008